Re: Hostile mentality among many on the server
Posted: 18 Jul 2015, 15:05
It's something quite strange really, I haven't noticed this to the extreme scale as it is on this server. Sure on some other servers there were a few who were very hostile and overall negative. But those people were just like I said, very few.
Let me give you an example of what happened yesterday...
I was playing deep resto druid and decided to play a few arena games with a friend of mine who plays warlock, he's not that experienced with the class and makes quite a lot of mistakes but I was prepared for that, and since warlock is my main class and I'm used to playing the comp I explained a lot of things and gave him advice as the games went along.
Things went smoothly and then we faced a warrior/resto druid team on blade's edge arena, I explained to my teammate that try to keep only exhaustion on the warrior and go on the druid and I'll take care of the rest. The plan is to simply keep the warrior CCed forever and kill/oom the druid, It's a rather foolproof plan especially since I was feral charge spec.
The game took 22 minutes, simply because the druid kept running around all over the place trying to avoid the warlock, and my friend had trouble chasing him efficiently, he got stuck on terrain and made bad decisions on which path to take when going after the druid, as well as overall bad pet management. This resulted in the druid being able to drink a lot of times even though the warrior was pretty much CCed 85-90% of the game. The enemy druid clearly played better than my warlock, the warrior too.
When the enemy druid finally died, the warrior stopped playing and started spamming the chat with all sorts of insults and curses, clearly trying to express his anger and how he thought they were obviously much much better than us. Even after the game ended he kept going with whispers for a good 5 minutes.
I can sort of understand that some people will feel like this when they lose and go completely berserk mode, unable to control their anger. However I've also seen this happen a lot of times when people win games. The winners will then insult the team who lost in a similar fashion. Which to me is a very strange behavior.
I've had to put countless of people on this server on my ignore list and I'm trying to figure out why that is, when I've played on many other servers where I barely had to put anyone on ignore. Arena-Tournament(now Warmane) 3.3.5 is a server that I played a lot on a few years ago and people didn't act like this at all there.
What's the reason for this? Back when I was younger and in school I remember teachers used to explain that people who were bullies very often did it because they were unhappy/depressed, it could be because of many different reasons but usually it was related to family issues, and an overall bad environment at home. I'm thinking it could be something similar with the hostile people on this server. They're probably depressed and/or in a not so good situation irl, so they use this server and the people on it as their scapegoat.
How do we fix this and make the server a better place?
Let me give you an example of what happened yesterday...
I was playing deep resto druid and decided to play a few arena games with a friend of mine who plays warlock, he's not that experienced with the class and makes quite a lot of mistakes but I was prepared for that, and since warlock is my main class and I'm used to playing the comp I explained a lot of things and gave him advice as the games went along.
Things went smoothly and then we faced a warrior/resto druid team on blade's edge arena, I explained to my teammate that try to keep only exhaustion on the warrior and go on the druid and I'll take care of the rest. The plan is to simply keep the warrior CCed forever and kill/oom the druid, It's a rather foolproof plan especially since I was feral charge spec.
The game took 22 minutes, simply because the druid kept running around all over the place trying to avoid the warlock, and my friend had trouble chasing him efficiently, he got stuck on terrain and made bad decisions on which path to take when going after the druid, as well as overall bad pet management. This resulted in the druid being able to drink a lot of times even though the warrior was pretty much CCed 85-90% of the game. The enemy druid clearly played better than my warlock, the warrior too.
When the enemy druid finally died, the warrior stopped playing and started spamming the chat with all sorts of insults and curses, clearly trying to express his anger and how he thought they were obviously much much better than us. Even after the game ended he kept going with whispers for a good 5 minutes.
I can sort of understand that some people will feel like this when they lose and go completely berserk mode, unable to control their anger. However I've also seen this happen a lot of times when people win games. The winners will then insult the team who lost in a similar fashion. Which to me is a very strange behavior.
I've had to put countless of people on this server on my ignore list and I'm trying to figure out why that is, when I've played on many other servers where I barely had to put anyone on ignore. Arena-Tournament(now Warmane) 3.3.5 is a server that I played a lot on a few years ago and people didn't act like this at all there.
What's the reason for this? Back when I was younger and in school I remember teachers used to explain that people who were bullies very often did it because they were unhappy/depressed, it could be because of many different reasons but usually it was related to family issues, and an overall bad environment at home. I'm thinking it could be something similar with the hostile people on this server. They're probably depressed and/or in a not so good situation irl, so they use this server and the people on it as their scapegoat.
How do we fix this and make the server a better place?